Published
for the Fort Bliss/El Paso, Texas Community
Oct.
5, 2006
Master Sgt. Troy Falardeau
SLDC guest instructor and USASMA Command Sgt. Maj. James E. Dale answers
the questions from
spouses (left to right) Marebel Gallardo, Claudia Perez and Danii Sedillo.
USASMA
trains
Soldiers, spouses
Master Sgt. Troy Falardeau
USASMA Class 57
Wives and husbands of Soldiers are often asked to assume mission-essential,
but volunteer responsibilities in the Army community – often with
only their life experiences to guide them. The U.S. Army Sergeants Major
Academy provides training to senior enlisted spouses to make the task
easier for them and more beneficial to the Army.
Spouses of Class 57 students, including international students, are
eligible to attend the Spouse Leadership Development Course. The course
offered is a seven week, 42-hour course to help them understand and
assist the Army community with topics such as communications, personality
styles, effective listening and public speaking. The training also provides
leadership skills which enhance their personal and professional lives.
It is managed by Sgt. Maj. Linda Richardson, a member of the USASMA
staff. She and volunteer instructors from the Fort Bliss community teach
most of the classes.
“Many of the students who attend this course seek more confidence
or knowledge to take on leadership positions in the Army community and
to coach and mentor junior spouses, said Richardson. “We want
to help them gain that, since they are a vital part of the leadership
team.”
“These senior enlisted spouses are role models, younger spouses
in units look up to them for guidance and support. They think the wife
or husband of a sergeant major or command sergeant major knows everything.
The truth is some of them have been married to their Soldier for only
six months or may have never been asked to play an active role in their
previous commands.”
Richardson conducts the course five times a year with up to 20 students
per class. The class meets twice a week for three hours. Although the
class has been taught for several years, it continues to evolve. This
year’s class, includes a health awareness component – which
mirrors one of the additions to the Sergeants Major Course. Spouses
can do a health screening and then discuss their results, one-on-one,
with a health care professional from the USASMA Health Promotion Office,
and with assistance from William Beaumont Army Medical Center.
A common theme among students is the importance of being given a voice.
Gloria Coronado, wife of Command Sgt. Major Edgardo Coronado, said the
classes she took gave her, “confidence to say what needed to be
said,” as well as the knowledge to do her job more professionally.
As a former drug and alcohol abuse counselor for a nonprofit organization
in California, she said she knows first-hand the importance of those
two skills; she had to use them when she was asked to provide moral
support to the wife of an officer from a previous unit when her husband
was killed in Iraq.
“The training in this course makes it easier for me to do something
difficult like that,” said Gloria.
Many of the spouses find the course fills another vital role: team-building.
Jana Lidmanska, fiancé of Command Sgt. Major Lubomir Volny from
the Czech Republic, said the course, “is not just about education.
It’s important for socialization and finding friends – people
who listen and share experiences and give different points of view.”
As a former member of the Czech military, she said she knows how important
this is when facing a leadership challenge. She has collected the e-mail
addresses of her fellow students and is prepared to call on them when
confronted with unfamiliar topics in her home country.
Michelle Lewis, wife of Senior Chief Petty Officer Edward Lewis, a Coast
Guard student in Class 57, is an example of that resource. She said
she has been active in her husband’s units in the past, and as
a former radar operator in the Coast Guard, she is familiar with the
organization, “but that could change, said Lewis. “I don’t
face the same challenges as an Army spouse because the Coast Guard doesn’t
currently deploy for extended periods, and usually not overseas. If
that changed, I am glad that I know how Army Family Readiness Groups
operate, so I would know what to do and who to ask.”
According to Richardson, SLDC is a program unique to the academy, but
its goals mesh well with those of Army Community Services and Army Family
Team Building. Those agencies support SLDC with instructors and subject
matter expertise. The overall goal is to provide training and knowledge
to spouses and family members of Soldiers at all ranks to support the
total Army effort.
Veronica Shinholster, one of the current SLDC students and wife of Sgt.
Maj. Willie Shinholster, said she wished she had taken advantage of
this type of resource long ago.
“It would have been good for me to learn this when my husband
became a first sergeant – or even earlier, said Shinholster. “I
hope other spouses take advantage of it now. It’s never too early
or too late to do it.”
Sharon Padgett, wife of Master Sgt. Douglas Padgett, echoed that thought.
“My time is coming to be a leader in my husband’s unit,
so I need to be ready, said Padgett. “That is why this course
is so important. I want to be effective. As a young military spouse,
I didn’t know that something like this might be available. I want
to help today’s junior spouses know that it does – and that
they need to take it – no matter what the rank of their Soldier.”
Padgett added that the classes not only improve leadership skills, but
also help spouses improve their personal relationships. After many years
of marriage, she found one of the courses taught in SLDC about personality
types helped her to understand the way she and her husband interact.
“He had this class through the military a few years ago to help
him work more effectively with his Soldiers.” she said. “But
now I can see how it can help me, too.”
The next SLDC has openings for late February, although space is currently
limited, according to Richardson. She added she has not turned down
anyone who wants to attend. The current class graduates in about three
weeks with a ceremony at the academy, complete with photographs, certificates
and proud spouses applauding. This time, however, it will be the Soldiers
in the audience and their supportive SLDC graduates in the spotlight.